Can boy and girls be just friends?

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#41
the problem is....i had a crush on him and he knew but after i made the first step and told him about it...nothing came back from him so i simply stopped myself from fancying him...

then we became really close friends...and now this!

rrrrrrrr

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#42

exactly

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#43

lol @ relationships.

This is just one of the reasons I keep my relationships with girls as just friends.

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#44

well i tried that and obviously it doesnt work

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#45

Well you said that you had a crush on him. I don't let that happen. I'm well aware you can't help how you feel about someone, but I also think that things you do or say to people have an influence and effect on them, which then might change how they are around you, and then in turn can have an effect on our feelings for them.

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#46

A guy and a girl can perfectly be friends - if either of them is already in a relationship.

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#47

Well you said that you had a crush on him. I don't let that happen. I'm well aware you can't help how you feel about someone, but I also think that things you do or say to people have an influence and effect on them, which then might change how they are around you, and then in turn can have an effect on our feelings for them.
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#48
This is just one of the reasons I keep my relationships with girls as just friends.
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#49
This is just one of the reasons I keep my relationships with friends as just girls.
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#50

Most of my friends are guys; and we're all really close. All but one is straight, so yeah. Guys and girls can be friends, and on a platonic level too. I only ever had feelings for one, and even after we broke up, we still remained really close friends. He'd come to me for advice on his later girlfriends and stuff. ^_^

My best friend is a guy, and he straight. And he's crazy. But he's cool. And he's constantly complaining about being single, I just tell him to go clubbing.

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#51

Hm, I have friends who are just boys and not boyfriends

It's each one's thought.

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#52

If one of them feels attraction for the other, and/or viceversa, No.

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#53
This is just one of the reasons I keep my relationships with girls as just friends.

so you're digging guys now?

sorry, it was too tempting

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#54

theres this really hot guy i know and we're only mates...

the other week he asked me if i wanna come home with him and i said 'no' and he said 'are u sure ur not a lesbian?'

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#55
This is just one of the reasons I keep my relationships with girls as just friends.

so you're digging guys now?

sorry, it was too tempting

:rofl: (Y)

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#56

Yeah I have some male friends but I dont believe that man+woman friendship doesnt have any sexual interest at all. Altho...who knows lol.

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#57

i always get this feeling that every guy that i'm 'friends' with (that I'm not interested in) has fantasies about sleeping with me... LOL why? I'm not even trying to be cocky... but at some point or another I always catch their eyes wondering and there is always flirtation... etc etc.

I think it's normal...

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#58

Oh i know it's true.... how could anyone resist all of this ... lmao haha kidding

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#59

maybe it is true

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#60

The female friends are almost all just the kinda girls that don't want to be in any relationship in this time of their life. So, it's pretty easy for me to just view them as only friends.

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