Can boy and girls be just friends?

even when their wearing cleavage tops and short skirts/dresses

i've never seen my female friends wear short skirts or cleavage shirts. Sadly

no wonder you're not tempted

i always get this feeling that every guy that i'm 'friends' with (that I'm not interested in) has fantasies about sleeping with me... LOL why? I'm not even trying to be cocky... but at some point or another I always catch their eyes wondering and there is always flirtation... etc etc.

I think it's normal...

That's not our fault, we're kinda hard-wired that way.

That's not our fault, we're kinda hard-wired that way.

I wear short shorts alllll the time whenever it's warm enough. I always get unwanted attention cause of it ... but hey, it's more comfy than pants.

I wear short shorts alllll the time whenever it's warm enough. I always get unwanted attention cause of it ... but hey, it's more comfy than pants.

ahaha, yeah but that's different though, any guy is gonna wanna look at a pair of sexy legs walking down the street, especially tanned. haha

I have a lot boy friends (I even have a better relationship than with girl friends ),

but some of them thought I want to not only a friend with them. Totally opposite to Rogue

but some of them thought I want to not only a friend with them.

What?

I'm guessing she means they thought she wanted to be more than friends with them...

Yes

I don't think so! Guys never want to just be my friend! it makes me sooo mad sometimes :anger:

they just always act so shy and like if I wanted to date them they would at the snap of my finger,kinda annoying

I don't think so! Guys never want to just be my friend! it makes me sooo mad sometimes :anger:

rofl, I think that says more about the sort of guys you choose to be friends with.

well i think guys and girls can def just be friends...i mean if u have an attractive friend, chances are you may have had a fantasy or two about them but if you decide that your friendship is more important then the lustful feelings you have for them, you may make it work!! i have 2 close guy friends; one i've known for more than decade and another since high school. not once have either of us fallen for each other...perhaps it's the whole attraction thingy too. ones more like a bro and the other....well just never saw him in that light!! but i guess what i'm trying to get at is guys and gurls can definitely just stick to being friends!!

however if you flirt with a guy and decide to just stick to being friends, expect for some terms such as friends with benefits, etc. but if thats the case, it isnt exactly friendship anymore is it?? well who knows...i guess ex lovers could still be friends too, so there!!

I have a lot boy friends (I even have a better relationship than with girl friends ),

but some of them thought I want to not only a friend with them. Totally opposite to Rogue

If you like each other, definitely, NO. I'm living this situation right now.

I'm single, but he has a girlfriend, he likes me, but he doesn't want to fail his gf, and he wants my friendship, but then he askes me out or says certain things that doesnt come necesarily from a friend's mouth heheh

It's hard.

I have a lot boy friends (I even have a better relationship than with girl friends ),

but some of them thought I want to not only a friend with them. Totally opposite to Rogue

are u flirtatious?

i think i have a problem where i am too flirtatious where i give everyone the wrong idea that i am interested. or i am just really friendly but in the long run.. when youare interested, there is a way to let a friend know that you are. you have to make a choice between friendship and exposing your feelings to risk it all. that's where things can become complicated.

Nope I'm like a tomboy, I treat them like my brothers

i have a whole group of guy friends. i call them my 'curry-crew' cause theyre all indian. haha and my relationship with them is pure friendship, nothing more.

and they know that if they even TRY to hit on me, i'll beat their ass to the ground haha. jk, but seriously. like we all party and get drunk togetehr occassionally and there are of course those drunken hook ups, but my 'indian-crew' knows not to touch me or do anything with me cause of the severe consequences...by me haha

so yes, i do believe guys and girls can be just friends

they can for sure i have alot of girl friends and communicate with them as with my siss

btw i have no siss

I don't think so! Guys never want to just be my friend! it makes me sooo mad sometimes :anger:

they just always act so shy and like if I wanted to date them they would at the snap of my finger,kinda annoying

How old are they? Sounds like a high school-thingy. Anyways, it seems that they know nothing about women. Desparation .