Why are you single?

Hi everyone,mm Very interesting Question why am I still single at 58.Well Im going to be honest here.Im 58 Hispanic male in Tucson,AZ a Not so handsome guy compared to other Centerfold hunks that most women prefer.All my life Believe it or not all I ever wanted was to have a decent woman to be my mate,but I have never been lucky with women at all,seems to me Im not attractive to them for some reason,and please dont say Im wanting high standards with ladies or Im picky.Then I thought about it,and have come up with some logical answers.Im not attractive enough,Am not Rich,Im too quiet or not aggressive enough,or who knows what.So those are my Answer.Thanks.

^^Dude, try datingsites. And whatever you do, don't cling to women as if your life depends on it. They tend to not like that.

I'm single because I don't have time for all the relationship stuff right now. I'm too busy with my studies at Uni. I mean, if I'm going to have a bf, I want to spend time with him, not be in a constant dilemma of "studies--or--boyfriend".

Also I think being single for a long time doesn't really have to do with your looks but more with your mentality. If you're like me, you could be a supermodel and still be single

I always tend to fall for the wrong ones. They're either

a. married

b. taken

c. uninterested.

And at clubs and pubs I always attract the creeps. The ones that say: "hey, I know you!" as of which I draw a blank "how so?" "well, I often see you running there and there." Me: "...." I really need to change up my route.

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I can relate to picking the "wrong" ones. I tend to choice men like I choose cars.. They have all the right rating but out of the bunch I will find the one "Lemon" And I will say I choose real "Lemons"

I'm single because I don't have time for all the relationship stuff right now. I'm too busy with my studies at Uni. I mean, if I'm going to have a bf, I want to spend time with him, not be in a constant dilemma of "studies--or--boyfriend".

Ms. Espresso,

I can understand that. But I believe that proper emotional management can help you achieve your objectives at your university and also allow you to have the heart to consider others or keep a boyfriend. In fact, I believe strongly that the university environment allows for easy opportunities for one to meet future friends and future partners.

There must be a way..perhaps browsing the local psychology/relationship section at a local bookstore sometimes for ideas and solutions. A door may be opened here and there for yourself.

I'm single because I don't have time for all the relationship stuff right now. I'm too busy with my studies at Uni. I mean, if I'm going to have a bf, I want to spend time with him, not be in a constant dilemma of "studies--or--boyfriend".

Ms. Espresso,

I can understand that. But I believe that proper emotional management can help you achieve your objectives at your university and also allow you to have the heart to consider others or keep a boyfriend. In fact, I believe strongly that the university environment allows for easy opportunities for one to meet future friends and future partners.

There must be a way..perhaps browsing the local psychology/relationship section at a local bookstore sometimes for ideas and solutions. A door may be opened here and there for yourself.

True. I think when some people (have to admit I am the same way), think about relationships, they think about spending every minute together, kids, marriage, a house and so on and so forth. Basically, something serious. The thing is that it doesn't have to be that way. If you and the other person are looking for the same thing, you can both just date without getting too involved. As long as you both understand that you have all those other priorities in life, you can still date while doing your own thing.

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I can relate to picking the "wrong" ones. I tend to choice men like I choose cars.. They have all the right rating but out of the bunch I will find the one "Lemon" And I will say I choose real "Lemons"

Limes are better then Lemons...

Because i got the most intense 7 weeks of my life up now

No time for distractions.

because i just got out of a 3-yr long relationship

and im finally happy by myself.

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I can relate to picking the "wrong" ones. I tend to choice men like I choose cars.. They have all the right rating but out of the bunch I will find the one "Lemon" And I will say I choose real "Lemons"

Limes are better then Lemons...

I do like lime better than lemon for sure.. What a wonderful flavor to use in life.

I'm not sure, but a lot of my guy friends say I'm intimidating.

Put that shiv down.

i don't go out, i am pretty much just stuck at home, and i am quiet person, and when i am with guy that i found attractive i don't know what to say so i just stay quiet, and the majority of the guys that i found attractive are either married or gay.

I'm not sure, but a lot of my guy friends say I'm intimidating.

I wonder if I intimidate the people of BZ.. Heh..

I'm not sure, but a lot of my guy friends say I'm intimidating.

I wonder if I intimidate the people of BZ.. Heh..

In what ways?

I'm not sure, but a lot of my guy friends say I'm intimidating.

I wonder if I intimidate the people of BZ.. Heh..

Does it even matter, i mean your not looking for love here are you

^^^ if someone were to find love here.. That would be an interesting buzz for BZ.

i don't go out, i am pretty much just stuck at home, and i am quiet person, and when i am with guy that i found attractive i don't know what to say so i just stay quiet, and the majority of the guys that i found attractive are either married or gay.

when i was in highschool i read the future in cards (i was "fortune teller"), some girls did the same and i don't know why but everybody always came to ask me advices about their future.

because of it i knew all the cute guys of my highschool and i knew all their lovestory, problems, etc... so it was pretty good to create contact... but maybe too much

result, when i was 15 years old, i dated with 4 boys in same time...

you should try it.

^^^ if someone were to find love here.. That would be an interesting buzz for BZ.

It has happened, supposedly.

^^^ if someone were to find love here.. That would be an interesting buzz for BZ.

it would indeed!

^^^ if someone were to find love here.. That would be an interesting buzz for BZ.

It has happened, supposedly.

Does that mean you don't know who...or that your not gonna spill

I'm single either because

(a) I'm hideous and women hate me

or

(b) I've got bad luck.

Jesus it's tough.