Do guys really care about weight?

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#181
Of course there are girls who can look great even when chubby. And I like a bit of (pardon the word - I couldn't find a better one) meat here and there.

Let me illustrate...

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I mean, is there even a word in English that means "chubby and sexy"? "Curvaceous"? "Buxom"? Or "shapely"?

I don't mean overweight women, just those with a little "extra" curves here and there... Beyonce, Kelly Brook, Serena Williams, Kim Kardashian...

The girl in that picture isn't reall that chubby, but she has no ass and her body doesn't look like its in particularly great shape either.

Beyonce has thunder thighs lol, I don't find that attractive in a woman.

Kelly Brook is hardly curvy. Shes thin enough to not be considered what most people consider having curves.

Just having some meat on your bones like the girl in the picture doesn't make her "chubby". It's a sign of our times that even a healthy physique can be called that. Are you all telling me you prefer the way Angelina Jolie looks now to how she looked back when she did the first Tomb Raider movie?

How about some pics to illustrate the way she looked in the two moves. I've never seen a Tomb Raider movie - though, I don't feel like I'm missing out.

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#182

All guys find different things about women attractive. My fiance is an ass/legs man. Luckily, I was blessed with nice legs and cute bum. But I also know that if I want to keep this up for the next 20 years, I need to work at it. So I try to work-out 3 times a week. Not necessarily to lose weight, but to maintain and keep in shape -- and damage control for when I hit my 30s. I'm 5'5 and 120lbs, so I'm a slender girl, but I do have hips and a waist and nice legs and an (almost) flat tummy.

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#183
All guys find different things about women attractive. My fiance is an ass/legs man. Luckily, I was blessed with nice legs and cute bum. But I also know that if I want to keep this up for the next 20 years, I need to work at it. So I try to work-out 3 times a week. Not necessarily to lose weight, but to maintain and keep in shape -- and damage control for when I hit my 30s. I'm 5'5 and 120lbs, so I'm a slender girl, but I do have hips and a waist and nice legs and an (almost) flat tummy.

Nice. You sound like a confident woman, which is always nice, rather than to hear people complaining about their body or putting themselves down because of it. I also applaud your fiancé for having good taste e.g. ass/legs.

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#184

When the aliens invade, I volunteer rockThesky to lead us into battle.

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#185

haha

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#186

I think both guys and girls care about weight. Physical attraction is huge when you first meet. But most girls I know seem to be more forgiving of imperfections than guys if their personality makes up for it.

Either way, who cares if guys like anorexic, skinny, curvy, athletic, chubby or fat? So many people out there, there's going to be many fans of each category. I've had a boyfriend who constantly tried pushing food at me because he thought I was too skinny. I've had another who always told me I was fat and I weighed 45kg then! I got rid of both because bottom line, I'm happy with my body. I feel good and healthy and think I look great and if my current guy can't appreciate that then he knows where the door is.

If you're not happy with your body then you should do something about it. Not for some dude but for your own happiness and confidence and most of all for your health. Feeling good about yourself gives you confidence and that's super sexy imo.

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#187
I think both guys and girls care about weight. Physical attraction is huge when you first meet. But most girls I know seem to be more forgiving of imperfections than guys if their personality makes up for it.

That's so true. Girls are actually really forgiving of imperfections or body type.

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#188

Being a guy, I really don't care about a girls weight.

For me it's more about personality then looks. But no, weight atleast for me doesn't matter.

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#189

Usually I don't feel attracted to overweight boys...But sometimes I don't care about that. If he's beautiful, funny and charming, the weight is not a problem.

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#190
Usually I don't feel attracted to overweight boys...

You mean girls? It says 'Male'.

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#191
Being a guy, I really don't care about a girls weight.

For me it's more about personality then looks. But no, weight atleast for me doesn't matter.

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All my male friends care about the numbering thingy

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#192

what numbering thing?

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#193

i was thinking....

if i was having sex with a fat guy & everything was rolling/jiggling around it would be such a turn off.

i think its the same then for men about women.

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#194

there are of course those men who are obsessed with "feeding" their girlfriends so they turn morbidly obese.

look it up.

some men find it insanely sexy to feed a woman.

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#195

Mr. limerlight: How I wish every guy is like you!

Seriously, it should be at least fair, like if guys prefer "beach body" then he shold have at least a body to match..

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Mr. limerlight: How I wish every guy is like you!

Seriously, it should be at least fair, like if guys prefer "beach body" then he shold have at least a body to match..

Judging by the nature of your post, I assume you don't have a "beach body"?

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Mr. limerlight: How I wish every guy is like you!

Seriously, it should be at least fair, like if guys prefer "beach body" then he shold have at least a body to match..

Thanks

and thanks too Lyon Weight is just a number, personality is what really counts. Besides true beauty is on the inside, not the outside. (cliche i know, but it really is true)

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#198

I mean if someone is "fat" its no probleme. The person has to like herself as that what she is.. If she is nicely then its good. But I could never imagine to have a overweight boyfriend this is a no go. But well, we are all just people one skinny,the other curvly, the next one overweight.

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#199

YES man/ guys do prefer women who are slim/ in shape/ taking care of theyr bodies over the women who do not really care about their bodies anymore

from peronal experience when i have gained weight man/guys did not look at me the same way and when women is slim and takes care of herself she gets a better treatment from man more respect

that is sad but true

i wish it didnt matter becouse thin or fat we are the same person inside

GO GIRLS

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#200

most guys say they prefer curvy girls over skinny girls. but they dont mean beyonce-curvy, rather gisele-curvy - in other words skinny girls with big boobs

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