Would you feel insulted if someone very ugly was trying to get with you?

itd be internet incest.

You might get a visit from this fella...

lolol!!!

me dont wants to go to jail and be some huge gal named shirley's bitch

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penny,sex with SS,too?

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I have some personal experience with this topic. A former female coworker started to hit on me at work. She was twice my age, three times my weight, and had her own unique armpit stink you could smell when she walked by (she always wore sleeveless tops and no deodorant, apparently). Since I'm too nice to tell someone to just piss off, she didn't quite get my "thanks, but no thanks" messages. A couple weeks later I quit the job and moved off to college (totally unrelated to her). She sent me a going away present, but that was the last I heard from her.

I've mostly just laughed it off (is that mean?) but there is a part of me that wonders what it is about me that made me "in her league".

SimpathySilhoutte, thats what ''not in league'' means. You also keep saying ''why do girls go to clubs if they dont want to meet new people'' etc and the simple fact is: Girls like hanging out with their friends in a bar/club environment. Some girls just want to go out with their friends out in the town like going dancing and not having strangers coming up to them to chat them up or just randomers trying to talk to them when they just want to have some fun with their friends. And also maybe us girls dont want to meet new people or talk to someone we dont know. You make it sound like a bad thing that we can choose not to talk to every guy that approaches whether its ''just to talk'' or go further.

I think it's stupid to 'build up a relationship out of thin air.' You gotta have SOMETHING in common before you ask a girl out, have some sort of interaction with her first.. work, school, whatever.

I've made this point before, but I'll make it again:

EVERY FRIEND YOU HAVE WAS AT ONE POINT A STRANGER!

I'm not saying you should approach people at clubs/bars/whatever with the sole intention of bedding them, I'm saying they are a good location to meet new people, be it for friendship or something else. The idea that some social venues are unacceptable to meet new people is beyond laughable to me.

A man approaching a woman in a bar/club will never be looking to just 'be friends'

Yeah, all of our friends were strangers at some point but we had a reason or something that made us talk to them in the first place. You don't just walk into some person in the street a complete stranger and tell them.. 'hey, i want to be friends with you.' Nothing will come out of that. But say that same person works in the same place as you.. then you do have something to start a relationship from.. not just 'thin air.'

That's just what I think.. if you've met your best friends at some club, good for you. I've made them in middle school, high school, college and work. Not at a a club. People go to clubs to get laid, that's it... which is fine by me

I've made my friends at all kinds of different places. Uni lectures, bars, clubs, high school, ...

I don't see how one place can be deemed as suitable to meet new people and others aren't.

And if you think I'm looking to bed every woman I approach at a bar or a club, clearly you don't know me.

A man approaching a woman in a bar/club will never be looking to just 'be friends'

Yeah, all of our friends were strangers at some point but we had a reason or something that made us talk to them in the first place. You don't just walk into some person in the street a complete stranger and tell them.. 'hey, i want to be friends with you.' Nothing will come out of that. But say that same person works in the same place as you.. then you do have something to start a relationship from.. not just 'thin air.'

That's just what I think.. if you've met your best friends at some club, good for you. I've made them in middle school, high school, college and work. Not at a a club. People go to clubs to get laid, that's it... which is fine by me

A man approaching a woman in a bar/club will never be looking to just 'be friends'

Yeah, all of our friends were strangers at some point but we had a reason or something that made us talk to them in the first place. You don't just walk into some person in the street a complete stranger and tell them.. 'hey, i want to be friends with you.' Nothing will come out of that. But say that same person works in the same place as you.. then you do have something to start a relationship from.. not just 'thin air.'

That's just what I think.. if you've met your best friends at some club, good for you. I've made them in middle school, high school, college and work. Not at a a club. People go to clubs to get laid, that's it... which is fine by me

I have a question... When did a club just become a place to go get laid? I've met friends everywhere I have went including clubs. Clubs are meant for people to interact with each other as a whole not just specific things it's up to the people to choose what they want . If they think it's a place to get laid, I say good luck with that if you find another person that's looking for the same thing that is great . Also I don't think anybody says "hey, i want to be friends with you" either you don't have to be around with somebody all the time to start a simple conversation.

I couldn't help myself to comment on this one .

A man approaching a woman in a bar/club will never be looking to just 'be friends'

Yeah, all of our friends were strangers at some point but we had a reason or something that made us talk to them in the first place. You don't just walk into some person in the street a complete stranger and tell them.. 'hey, i want to be friends with you.' Nothing will come out of that. But say that same person works in the same place as you.. then you do have something to start a relationship from.. not just 'thin air.'

That's just what I think.. if you've met your best friends at some club, good for you. I've made them in middle school, high school, college and work. Not at a a club. People go to clubs to get laid, that's it... which is fine by me

I have a question... When did a club just become a place to go get laid? I've met friends everywhere I have went including clubs. Clubs are meant for people to interact with each other as a whole not just specific things it's up to the people to choose what they want . If they think it's a place to get laid, I say good luck with that if you find another person that's looking for the same thing that is great . Also I don't think anybody says "hey, i want to be friends with you" either you don't have to be around with somebody all the time to start a simple conversation.

I couldn't help myself to comment on this one .

now i'm scared to go to club... alone... or even with...

That's a funny question, because I can't deny it, I do care about physical, but I don't feel insulted when some ungly guy tries to get with me. It's not who tried to get with me, is how they do it. For instance, there's this guy at work, which get so intensively disgusting! He calles me to my extension to say stuff like "You know you want me too, you know I'm your desire, you wish me" and I'm like <_< hell no! He tried to touch my legs, at work, while eating, and I'm like "Can you leave me alone? I DON'T WANT TO DATE YOU!" First of all.. he's the last guy on earth I wish to be with, and ugly, pretty, attractive, whatever, he's blowing it, he sucks.

Whta Im trying to say is, it's the way they do it, no their faces. If they make me feel uncomfortable, no matter how hot they are, they can go to hell, I won't care. As long as you don't push me to do what I don't want to do, because I can hurt your feelings if I don't do it (yes, it has happened), and well... if I don't like you, don't make great effort to try to change that.

But I find that the fugly ones tend to be more aggresive and the cute ones will never go after you since they know they find someone else so it's always up to the guy to get the cute ones.

I think personally Clubs are somewhere to go 'Late' to carry on getting wasted... or somewhere to carry on getting wasted with your friends... The reason it becomes a place to get laid is because everyone has their guards down when they are truely loaded on Alcohol and club kicking out time is generally the end of the night, therefore the bit before you goto bed... alone or not !! But you can meet someone ANYWHERE and they can be a friend or More... I met one of my Ex's on the Bus... it's a bit weird... I hope it happens again tho as I do sit next to this really hot girl every morning... she's so pretty. I don't have any reason to speak to her and I don't want her to think Im some sort of weirdo that only s next to her because she's attractive.... Errrr... Ok that is the reason I sit there !! hahaha... totally busted ! Im a Bus Creep !!

That's a funny question, because I can't deny it, I do care about physical, but I don't feel insulted when some ungly guy tries to get with me. It's not who tried to get with me, is how they do it. For instance, there's this guy at work, which get so intensively disgusting! He calles me to my extension to say stuff like "You know you want me too, you know I'm your desire, you wish me" and I'm like <_< hell no! He tried to touch my legs, at work, while eating, and I'm like "Can you leave me alone? I DON'T WANT TO DATE YOU!" First of all.. he's the last guy on earth I wish to be with, and ugly, pretty, attractive, whatever, he's blowing it, he sucks.

Whta Im trying to say is, it's the way they do it, no their faces. If they make me feel uncomfortable, no matter how hot they are, they can go to hell, I won't care. As long as you don't push me to do what I don't want to do, because I can hurt your feelings if I don't do it (yes, it has happened), and well... if I don't like you, don't make great effort to try to change that.

Sounds like this guy is just screaming for a sexual harassment charge!

That's a funny question, because I can't deny it, I do care about physical, but I don't feel insulted when some ungly guy tries to get with me. It's not who tried to get with me, is how they do it. For instance, there's this guy at work, which get so intensively disgusting! He calles me to my extension to say stuff like "You know you want me too, you know I'm your desire, you wish me" and I'm like <_< hell no! He tried to touch my legs, at work, while eating, and I'm like "Can you leave me alone? I DON'T WANT TO DATE YOU!" First of all.. he's the last guy on earth I wish to be with, and ugly, pretty, attractive, whatever, he's blowing it, he sucks.

Whta Im trying to say is, it's the way they do it, no their faces. If they make me feel uncomfortable, no matter how hot they are, they can go to hell, I won't care. As long as you don't push me to do what I don't want to do, because I can hurt your feelings if I don't do it (yes, it has happened), and well... if I don't like you, don't make great effort to try to change that.

Sounds like this guy is just screaming for a sexual harassment charge!

^ disgusting and horny :yuckky:

I wouldnt be offended i mean hey atleast then i know im pretty ^.^ lol