Can boy and girls be just friends?

Again... NO!!!

i think you can.

i have lots of male friends that i've never been with.

yes some hit on you but you can not go with them and move on.

Of course they can be.

But I feel like sooner or later, there is always such thought as "hmmm, I wonder if we could be a good couple".

But it's not like I imagine being a gf of my male friend(s) though...do you get what I mean??

It's harder to do when theyre attractive

My best friend is a girl....but we had sex, does that make us just friends?...

My best friend is a girl....but we had sex, does that make us just friends?...

:| maybe friend with benefits

My best friend is a girl....but we had sex, does that make us just friends?...

:| maybe friend with benefits

that depends if you do it all the time. anyone can slip up and sleep with someone just once...

This guy is trying to just be my friend (we like each other too much but he's got his girlfriend) and I'm not gonna lie! I would like to keep him as a friend. He actually takes good care of me when I need it. We have been friends with benefits for almost two months, but 3 days ago, I told him that we couldn't play that game anymore, but we have had this convo about 5 times, no lies! But seriously.. this time need to be over.

After I "broke up" with him, he has still treat me nice, trying to be my friend! But I think that is not possible... I feel a HUGE attraction towards him, that doesnt not let me be in a place with him, looking for a way to tell him to go somewhere else. uuuugggghh!!!

Ha! This thread is funny! I would say maybe but for me its a no.. Every guy that I'm just friends with ends up liking me! Which sucks because I only want to be friends with them nothing more..

Ha! This thread is funny! I would say maybe but for me its a no.. Every guy that I'm just friends with ends up liking me! Which sucks because I only want to be friends with them nothing more..

And has the friendship over because they've told you so?

Ha! This thread is funny! I would say maybe but for me its a no.. Every guy that I'm just friends with ends up liking me! Which sucks because I only want to be friends with them nothing more..

And has the friendship over because they've told you so?

I have no clue.. We are friends but not like we use to be, now things are just awkward! :|

This guy is trying to just be my friend (we like each other too much but he's got his girlfriend) and I'm not gonna lie! I would like to keep him as a friend. He actually takes good care of me when I need it. We have been friends with benefits for almost two months, but 3 days ago, I told him that we couldn't play that game anymore, but we have had this convo about 5 times, no lies! But seriously.. this time need to be over.

After I "broke up" with him, he has still treat me nice, trying to be my friend! But I think that is not possible... I feel a HUGE attraction towards him, that doesnt not let me be in a place with him, looking for a way to tell him to go somewhere else. uuuugggghh!!!

Ugh, shitty situation you got yourself there. Do you actually feel you want to be with him, as in bf-gf? Since you are obviously attracted to him and he is to you, can't he break up with his gf? I mean, if he's going through all that trouble to be near you he's lying to himself about where he and his gf stand. Just my two cents.

As for the friend thing, I'm mixed on it. I believe it's possible, but it never worked out with me. I had a male friend once, it was real fun and he actually came to me for advise on girlfriends, but then he started dropping hints he was in love with me. *Grumble* I hate to be in a situation like that. Always end up hurting someone's feelings, in this case of someone I care about. Firs I drop hints that I'm not into him, but he never picked them up so I had to tell it in his face and watch his face fall. And after that it just wasn't the same.

I guess it can work if the person of the opposite sex is gay or a relative. Other than that I think there will always be some attraction from one side and even if you think there isn't, chances are that your BFF actually fancies you. After all, you like eachother a lot. Throw some hormones into the mix and there you go.....

of course, but there will always be a sexual attraction at least on one side, we're human beings.

if they had sex and no connection, sparlkle , fireworks , magnet and so on had happened after, then they can and will be friends

This guy is trying to just be my friend (we like each other too much but he's got his girlfriend) and I'm not gonna lie! I would like to keep him as a friend. He actually takes good care of me when I need it. We have been friends with benefits for almost two months, but 3 days ago, I told him that we couldn't play that game anymore, but we have had this convo about 5 times, no lies! But seriously.. this time need to be over.

After I "broke up" with him, he has still treat me nice, trying to be my friend! But I think that is not possible... I feel a HUGE attraction towards him, that doesnt not let me be in a place with him, looking for a way to tell him to go somewhere else. uuuugggghh!!!

Ugh, shitty situation you got yourself there. Do you actually feel you want to be with him, as in bf-gf? Since you are obviously attracted to him and he is to you, can't he break up with his gf? I mean, if he's going through all that trouble to be near you he's lying to himself about where he and his gf stand. Just my two cents.

mmm that is the big issue!

I have seen him lie to his gf when he's with me, she has called him when we're together, I am that lie! So I wouldn't like us to be together as bf-gf.. I know exactly what to expect from him and in relationships terms... that would be terrible! I'd rather that.. friends with benefits we use to have.

of course yes , i have some

but I'm male

Well, now I would say it is possible, but it's not an "of course" case, I don't think it's that obvious anymore, seeing recently so many friends turning into lovers :|

Yes it is possible. I know some really cool guys and a few I have thought about it, but that's it. I'm not going to make a big deal about it unless they say or do something. There are other guys I never even think about going out with, but they are really cool people to talk to.

Yes if they are Gay

It takes time but I say yes.

I have 2 very close friends that at first i said "wow :drool:" and ya had some thoughts about them, but the more I got to know them, the desire to act or even think those thought has disappeared. It's all about the setting and who the people are. I myself without lying am a very sexually minded person And love making comments about it/ other inappropriate comments. But i know the difference in what I want in a friend that's a girl and a girl i want as a lover. So at first no, but the more you get to know the people it all depends who they are what they want.