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Thanks guys 
I wanted to make sure everyone is in the loop about his most recent [known] creepiness. You know he will eventually do or say something dumbass to dig himself a hole he cannot get out of. And I don't necessarily mean he will get banned.
I don't think he is necessarily obsesses with but he is just an obsessive person.
I could go HAM on him but that is what he wants. Besides it is not the right time b/c he has not done anything for it to be effective enough. Like I said, I am not going encourage his behavior and get caught in his manipulative web of drama. If he want to come at me he can. I have already made it clear to him I don't want any interaction with him. if he choose to be a dumbass that is his choice and therefore he will need to deal with being shamed & bitch slapped online....rather than in his assumed evey day life.
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I am going to ban Johnny Walker or whatever his name is for having multiple accounts and consistently being a jackass.
^ I guess I am naive or stupid or..... both, but what is HAM? 
I have an above average (no pun intended) tolerance for him because I have a cousin who is pretty much the same guy. One time I was even forced to break his nose 
for telling a waitress to 'handle it.' Anyway, initially I had no dealings with him because he would only respond to someone responding to something I said so I just scanned over his post. Then finally he broke the ice by subtly belittle anything I showed interest in. I asked Jennka to help me pursue drawing, he said he always thought it was a waste. I said I played football, now 'sports is a waste of time.' He couldn't counter any of my points in our nutrition and medicine discussion and, it was then, 'well...my uncle's a physician.' 
We've settled our differences since then although I wasn't aware that he had gotten worse or that anyone else. The truth is (and I've told him this) that he's extremely condescending and patronizing but thinks that if he words it subtly and eloquently, we're not smart enough to pick up on it. He probably regrets the consequences of his actions and thus its difficult to accept that you would rather sever ties than give him another chance. Whether he's sincere or not, you don't owe him anything, but he does owe you respect as well as the granting of your wishes. Hopefully he's wise enough to accept that and if not, he'll just have to suffer the consequences of course 
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^ I guess I am naive or stupid or..... both, but what is HAM?
Going Ham:
Ham stands for: hard as a motherf**ker. Therefore, this word is easily defined as "going hard as a motherf**ker".
^ I guess I am naive or stupid or..... both, but what is HAM?
Going Ham:
Ham stands for: hard as a motherf**ker. Therefore, this word is easily defined as "going hard as a motherf**ker".
Not sure who, or what this is... hell I can't even understand wtf they're saying, but if I'm reading this right, this person has been banned from BZ before and is back.
Should we ban again, put them on mod watch, give or warning or what?
there is a way send to sign moderators and they will banned me as usually when woke up with left leg
that wiil be my 4374th ban everywhere
pffh, big thing
I say alwaays what i want without fearles
and i think panda pic most cute than recycle bin bestseller Leslie Lawrence but anyway he is most popularity in last 40 years but never for me
and thanks tje last three pics
^ I have to head out to a class soon but I took a quick look. The member share IP addresses with:
Leo lover: 67.213.218.74
eray: 159.253.145.150
user120: 37.130.229.149
None of the members are banned.
Seehow was given a warning; I don't like being told to "shut up and go away".
I skiped the asking for an explaination part and just banned them since he/she admitted to being banned before .
I love you Joes!
^ works for me
A person of interest to keep an eye on.
New member to the forum, IP shows them from Kansas (same exact location on the map that Jade/Wild Flower are from), and after refuse to speak anything but Bosnian in Emily D's thread even after I requested that they speak English as this an English speaking forum.
I was once able to trap Jade by referring to her as one of her other names, so needless to say, if its her, she'll reveal herself soon enough since she isn't one of our brightest. If it was her, she could have realized how lame her previous guises were and may have thought using Google language would spice things up. I don't know what the point would be though. Since she's only located in the area but doesn't have the same IP, I'll just keep an eye out for now like you said although I don't recall seeing too many no English speaking Bosnians in Kansas the last time I was there. That said, I disabled her posting indefinitely with a stipulation of her having to answer my pm asking her to confirm that she understands the rule and what was said to her in the warning in order to be able to post again. If she can't do that, I guess she'll just go to Bozniazon and neither side loses anything .
Apparently she speaks russian as well Увлекательные!
HighMaintenance sent me a PM, and apparently Bigmax has been harassing her via PM and email for awhile now. He's a stalker, he won't leave Isabeli Fontana alone to the point that her own staff is uncomfortable with him, and he's a bitching ahole on BZ who reports everything and anyone he doesn't like.
I'm waiting on the emails from her to see what can be done.
^ He is harassing Isabeli too? 
How did you find out? I could only imagine how irritated & creeped out Isabeli feels 
I think Bigmax should consider taking Xanax. His hissy fits here and on tFS are getting worse and it is annoying a lot of people.
I hope this all gets resolvd soon. Thanks for keeping us updates 
I'm friends with a couple of people in Isabeli's camp.
I'll definitely keep an eye on that one too, especially since I've never seen him say anything. Hopefully he won't be a nuisance like FRANCY's stalker that we had to ban hundreds of times. As to the previous person, she responded back to me saying, 'great' and then quoted herself saying 'great' twenty some odd more times and then 'beautiful blue eyes' then more 'greats' and then 'she is beautiful, I should get booked like her!' and then responded to herself several more times 
. I think this is definitely a crazy one.
I know that liika has many friends here, even among administrators and fellow moderators, and I am aware that she has made many contributions to Bellazon. Nevertheless, I have issued her an informal warning. I am certain that she will contact one of you regarding this issue, so I am proactively informing you of the situation.
I have not had an ideal relationship with her, because there have been occasions in the past when I have questioned the sizes of some images and some negative comments that she made. She has, without exception, become rather upset and disrespectful each time. I have always ignored her rudeness, but this time, I feel that she has crossed the line, and have issued her an informal warning. I will appreciate your support.
Here is a llnk http://www.bellazon.com/main/topic/15260-simon-nessman/page-49#entry3248980
A summary of the exchange follows:
1) liika made a comment about a post that I made: "awful cover :yuckky:"
2) I responded: "You are, of course, entitled to your opinion. But providing details supporting it will be helpful and place it in an objective framework for intelligent discourse. Otherwise, it could be consider bashing - which is against BZ rules. It will also show respect for the person who took the time to search for, prepare, and make the post. Thank you."
3) liika's response that I found offensive and disrespectful (which I deleted): of course i would be entitled by MY opinion,not yours.everybody is free to express their opinion,and not obligated to explaining WHY.its written nowhere that only good opinions should be expressed. i just DONT like it,and i find it awfull.bashing?did you red what exactly is called bashing?this has nothing to do with bashing.did YOU took that shot,to take it personal now?you have no right to consider it as bashing.
as a matter of fact,you are the one who bashes at me right now,and im only trying to defend myself.
consider it as bashing and ill consider it as bashing against me,from you.and you know what happened the previous time,cuz you were the one who bashed at me 
and dont tell me about the rules,which i know & follow better than you.thank you.
4) My PM to liika issuing an informal warning:
liika
If you re-read my post, you will find that I did not accuse you of bashing. I was merely suggesting that you support your opinion in an objective way; otherwise it could be considered bashing. Bashing, according to Bellazon's rules, is making offensive comments about a celebrity, his/her work, another member or a BZ staff member.
Saying something is "awful" is offensive. Of course, I do not know if Simon or the photographer found your comment offensive, but I, as the poster, certainly did.
If you had explained why you thought the cover was "awful" "yucky", I and other members would be better able to understand your position, and a discussion could follow. Discourse between members is one of the primary reasons Bellazon exists.
In addition, your response to my post, which I removed, but saved and will share with Bellazon staff and administrators was disrespectful. For this, you will receive an informal warning. Further disrespect will warrant you a formal warning.
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Please feel free to PM me if you have any questions.
Thank you!
MauiKane (Paul)
Here is the latest on this saga.
As I predicted, liika became defensive and chose to retaliate. Her PM to me:
liika, on 16 Sept 2013 - 07:38 AM, said:
Good.i saved it too.I will also complain for second time how youre harrassing me.Nothing in ny answer was disrespectful.its just you always misreading my comments,and ALWAYS trying to put up a fight with me..
My response to her:
First of all, your accusations are totally unsubstantiated. I hardly have contact or communication with you. I recall having a question or two about your posts Posing infrequent questions to you does not constitute harassment or picking fights. I am only performing my duty as a moderator. Furthermore, I have asked you questions or made comments in a respectful manner. As moderator and a frequent contributor to Bellazon's forums, I am too busy to constantly keep tabs on you for personal reasons. I gain nothing from harassing you or picking a fight with you.
Secondly, you accuse me of blatantly breaking the rules. Where is your evidence of that? If you are referring to the Sean O'pry incident, that re-post was a mistake. I deleted my post as soon as you pointed it out. I do NOT flagrantly re-post material. If you have evidence to the contrary, please provide it. The other time I recall communicating with you was when I thought someone else's photo was Douglas Booth, but you and another member pointed out that it was not. I asked for definitive proof, because I had evidence from multiple sources that it was Douglas, and was not about to delete the photo without evidence proving that it was not him. What is unreasonable or harassing about that? The other member did not take offense, and provided me with convincing evidence without accusing me of harassment or picking a fight.
It is your right to complain about what you feel is harassment, I welcome the opportunity to defend myself, if need be, against such an unsubstantiated accusation.
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If she responds, I will most likely not answer. I have said all I wanted to say. But I must admit, I feel like just issuing a formal warning and being done with it all!