Joe > Average

1 thing to make bz even better?

-dont overreact.

(Carmelita, <3 your avatar!! )

well, i thought the whole thread was about ME! oh my god, you means there are only 867 post who talk about me. i'm deeply disgusted.

anyway, everyone is free to understand my problem or try to be pertinant and fail...

my problem had on link with profils. everyone is business!

U know being sarcastic and aggressive is not going to help much Especially when I said I was talking for myself.

To me, having someone looking at my profile 100 times a day is not a problem. It's just a waste of time for this person. I perfectly understood your situation was different than a simple glance on ur profile, but jumping at everyone throat like that? Jeeeeeez! Relax! It's just a fashion forum & Internet. I know sometime dealing with idiots can drive u crazy even on the net but no one here is attacking you. We are just sharing our thoughts and opinion.

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people cultures is so limited on this forum

Wow! I can understand why a member want to know u so badly... U don't judge and U are also very tolerant (Y)

3. Why, what's wrong with Valentina?

Seriously Mel?

that logo must be change or else!!

I'm in agreement with the logo. It was supposed to circulate every now and then!

Variety is the spice of life!

Carmelita. i was intersted to know if it was possible to know the person ip but apparently no. the thing who's stupid and really who be changed should be the fact who could block someone not to avoid to read his messages but to avoid him to read our message. could it be possible ?

frenchkiki, sorry. with all the stupid stuff i read about me apparently from people who don't understand and laugh to cheer their pseudo superiority because they only understand the first part of my problem and have no the mental capacity to understand the second part so their brain is still blocked on the "she pretends she's stalked because people watch her pictures ahahaha" and i was like "no, again ?!" at this moment my humor/comprehension was a bit low and i thought you were sarcastic. when i feel the level of conversation very low and/or with a lack of pertinant arguments (or just very disrespectful like with Cult Icon who cumulate it so with him it's directly i'm directly in the red zone), i can get very irritate and agressive to provocate this person and try to make her say their best arguments and tell informations that sometimes she never would say. be punched in the face is sometimes a good way to wake up and really show who you are and what you worth.

without this kind of stuff i certainly should be a redneck. angst, vexation can be a good stimulant, even the best to make you evolve. so yes, sometimes be agressive can be good.

people cultures is so limited on this forum

Wow! I can understand why a member want to know u so badly... U don't judge and U are also very tolerant (Y)

hum, i would say people absolutely don't care about art in and the one who criticized me are not exactely the kind who try to develop and share stuff about art on this forum. so yeah that's why i'm often alone in the art section... i perfectly know everybody is not stupid even if in this quote i can sound like a perfect douchebag. but the fact is here. i just use my own stuff as example like fashion pictures can be view many thousands times and art stuff just 10 or 15 times in 3 years. that's why i noticed this person. you can pretend to be lucky if 10 people had watched in one year the pictures you had posted in the art section. people on this forum are absolutely not into art. andwhen they talk about something it's just often mainsteam stuff that everybody already know...

and i even can say that Carmelita had just watched 4 or 5 pictures on the diane arbus thread out of the ones she had removed...

now, go back to work on mister computer..

An animated logo will be cool!

changing the skin will be nice too... it looks very 00's!

I am sure IP board has nice new updates since this forum is on line?

and as it's not a free board i hope they have much more to offer than this old version??

I suggest Anais Mali for the new logo picture :morning: I mean, I like Valentina a lot and I don't really care how long she's in the logo but it seems to me that other people would love to have it changed so why not?

My suggestion to make BZ better, although I don't think this could happen: get rid of the stars system. I really don't care whether I have 4 or 3 or 5 stars, but it looks like some people take pleasure in lowering someone's ranks... I mean... why do you need to go give sb 1 star? Doesn't make sense to me and it seems to cause uneccesary drama.

As for now I want to tell the two of you, Baby and CultIcon, to stop tearing at each other. Baby made clear, she does not want to have anything to do with CultIcon and vice versa. So just ignore each other and get on with it. And stop insulting each other on this board. I would hate losing either of you, but if we can't figure out who's right (because this argument seems to be pretty much a lack of respecting that everyone has got different opinions and borders that shouldn't be crossed), it's either you two try to get along or the two of you have to leave.

Well, it is clear to me as a man that I am automatically disadvantaged, externally, in a certain type of accusation. I believe that I am 100% accurate in my warnings.

I have not attempted to humor any of her posts in this thread (besides the one Lu picked up). So from my perspective, I have not even engaged anybody besides Sweet Lu, ophelia, and you. I felt compelled to inform the mods openly about the trollish characteristics that were integral to her conduct and was at the time visibly annoyed that Lu chose his position.

Here is the reality:

I have not exchanged posts with this poster since June of 2011. I stand by everything I've said here. From my perspective, my views are a lot more objective than you or others may think, Carmelita. And my blood pressure isn't rising

I want this person to stay away, and continue to hold this position. I have zero interest in her . I hope you and etc. can accept that.

say the guy who harassed me with the WII in independent movies... i'm sorry but usually when i go in a thread who talk about well death sentence, i talk about death sentence. of course a forum is not a school and a thread is not an homework and as everyone sometimes i alo can be out of the subject. no drama with it. at first i come here to know if it was possible to know our viewers identity and which is could be a forum option, and the only thing i wanted was a moderator's answer. nothing else. no less, no more.

and hear i posted my first message against him, OMG because i was traumatised to see someone post a a message in the art section because i "monopolized" it, so i come here to punish him (and in my first message i even didn't talk about him! and if he wasn't come i never would say his name!) that's really crazy! as i already said, he really believes in his dreams!

and then, that's me who harass him! he comes here and start create troubles, defaming me and and THIS is my fault if i had a request for the moderator. and everybody, him first thought i would let someone say lie about me, discredite me, imply that maybe i could be the person who "secretly" visit his profil and "underrate" him and i should say "amen" to all this and then close my mouth. jesusmariejoseph! that's insane!!!he knew i would answer! and he knew it only could be virulent!

and i definitively would like to know what i said to sweet lu! need to be quoted and i must read it by my own eyes because i even don't remember i talked about/replied to him and which was a bit b*tchy because he was very nice with me.

and of course, defaming someone is nothing. and well, that's sexism against him... i'm really exhausted by this guy and all this story. i really thope his is the end.

3. Why, what's wrong with Valentina?

Seriously Mel?

that logo must be change or else!!

I'm in agreement with the logo. It was supposed to circulate every now and then!

Variety is the spice of life!

Ja, ja, you're right, maybe I'm just still happy about they changed from Andi Muise to Valentina ages ago, though I'm not keen on Valentina either

Maybe we should make a poll ... I will suggest it to the staff.

Carmelita. i was intersted to know if it was possible to know the person ip but apparently no. the thing who's stupid and really who be changed should be the fact who could block someone not to avoid to read his messages but to avoid him to read our message. could it be possible ?

I'm not sure, I will ask.

frenchkiki, sorry. with all the stupid stuff i read about me apparently from people who don't understood what i said i was like "no again ?" at this moment my humor/comprehension was a bit low and i thought you were sarcastic. when i feel the level of conversation very low and/or with a lack of pertinant arguments (or just very disrespectful like with Cult Icon who cumulate it so with him it's directly i'm directly in the red zone), i can get very irritate and agressive to provocate this person and try to make her say their best arguments and tell informations that sometimes she never would say. be punched in the face is sometimes a good way to wake up and really show who you are and what you worth.

without this kind of stuff i certainly should be a redneck. angst, vexation can be a good stimulant, even the best to make you evolve. so yes, sometimes be agressive can be good.

I see your point, Baby, but you have to be aware that being aggressive and insulting will cause the same reaction on the opposite side. I don't feel this is the right kind of way to deal with someone on the internet where there's only the written word to judge from.

I suggest Anais Mali for the new logo picture :morning: I mean, I like Valentina a lot and I don't really care how long she's in the logo but it seems to me that other people would love to have it changed so why not?

My suggestion to make BZ better, although I don't think this could happen: get rid of the stars system. I really don't care whether I have 4 or 3 or 5 stars, but it looks like some people take pleasure in lowering someone's ranks... I mean... why do you need to go give sb 1 star? Doesn't make sense to me and it seems to cause uneccesary drama.

Here is the reality:

I have not exchanged posts with this poster since June of 2011. I stand by everything I've said here. From my perspective, my views are a lot more objective than you or others may think, Carmelita. And my blood pressure isn't rising

I want this person to stay away, and continue to hold this position. I have zero interest in her . I hope you and etc. can accept that.

... at first i come here to know if it was possible to know our viewers identity and which is could be a forum option, and the only thing i wanted was a moderator's answer. nothing else. no less, no more.

[...] i really thope his is the end.

So, enough said about the issue now for the moment, I guess so. Let's just stay away from each other, guys.

Moving on from the stalker issue..

This is more of a question than a suggestion, But moving on.. Obviously, bashing models, actors, etc in there thread is not allowed but I've seen on many threads people just randomly posting a comment for example; "i don't like her." etc. and even though it's not verbally abusing said person, it's still a pointless comment. and I know a lot of models, Candice S. for example reads there threads/topics. And get quite offended when anything remotely bad is posted about them... Luuuu! :persuazn:

And obviously I've heard in the past "Oh, it's a forum. things are mean't to be discussed" & "people have their own opinions" etc. But if people don't have a specific reason as to why they don't like said actress, model, etc. Why post? because even though they might not think randomly saying they don't like said person is bad it can still upset people who follow that topic.

I was just wondering as to why that's allowed, but saying someone is fat or unattractive is considered rude and hurtful, etc. Because either way your still saying something that can be offending.

I have been stalked especially from people you never hear from but you see them looking at your profile is creepy and scary this is the reason why I don't visit this website often because I am trying to prevent stalker. by the way how can you make yourself invisible?

When you log in you get asked "log in as invisible", just make your mark there.

3 thing that would make bz better is

1. been able to change your username as much as you want

2. preventing stalker.

3. changing the logo picture

1. I know about your name changing problem - I guess PinkCouture has already told you how the case lies. I want to add that if everyone could change the name at any time, don't you think it would be chaos? And it really doesn't help with getting grip on the stalking issue neither... No, I don't think they were be chaos, it is a better way to prevent stalkers, and sometimes you get tired having the same username and want to change it now and then, like in Twitter you could change your username whenever you want to, and there is no problem with that in Twitter. I really want back my username I had before, by the way my username shouldn't been change to wildflower because it had been change before to Maiya, if we are going by the rules

2. And how could someone prevent stalker? Even if someone would name himself "stalkerNo1" doesn't mean he's a stalker. How could anyone know who's a stalker before he starts stalking? I know this is a serious issue, but preventing stalker is just not possible. Or at least I can't think of how to do it. At least your name-changing-suggestion doesn't seem to be a step forward to prevent stalker. yes it would if you have a new username the stalker won't know who you were with your previous name

3. Why, what's wrong with Valentina? she's been there forever, time to change the logo, by the way I am not fan of valentina and I don't find her attractive, I thing the logo should be change for the most every 3 months and for the least 1 mont with different models just to please now and then each fan, I think you have please all the valentina's fan for a long time, and is time to please other fans with their favorite model, for example me, I would be please seen a logo with alyssa miller, barbara palvin, julie ordon, josie maran, xenia deli, lais ribeiro, candice boucher etc, etc, etc, the model that is the popular right now is Kate Upton I am pretty sure you would please all the kate's fan, she has plenty of fan, you would make them happy for at least a month

I don't think there is a username issue. I do agree that there will be chaos if people keep switching their names.

I see your point, Baby, but you have to be aware that being aggressive and insulting will cause the same reaction on the opposite side. I don't feel this is the right kind of way to deal with someone on the internet where there's only the written word to judge from.

i'm insulting only with people who disrespect me. and i definitively more careful with my best friends. i know what they worth, they don't need to prove anything, so with them i'm prefectly sweet.

i don't expect (and i don't want) an hug from someone who come here to defame me. and for me this kind of behavior is definitely more serious than someone who could call you a "dumb" because it's still a person's opinion who can change with time or situations. and we can't please to everyone... fortunately!

this is my personal vision but written word are the best to judge someone because here people can really think before express their opinions. thing that some people don't make in real life.

So, enough said about the issue now for the moment, I guess so. Let's just stay away from each other, guys.

I wasted my BZ time doing 'containment' for this thread. Next time, you got to pull out your mod sword and finish the job: Cut down unnecessary trolling and drama when you see it. Contain it. etc. Too much social harmony, Carmelita!

Signin' off..

between the person who comes here to know if their is an option, a possibility to know the identity of people who watch our stuff and the other person who comes here to complain because of his "underrate", which one if the biggest troll ? members' popularity is not something who could be change by the forum.

^ love it

Reminds me of this t - shirt that i've seen everywhere

http://img585.imageshack.us/img585/6160/17ug1.jpg

http://img851.imageshack.us/img851/3807/st...ation100736.jpg

^

Flavia's smile, LOL

LOL , I responded to that in the original draft but forgot to put it back when I had to redo my post initially when I lost connection upon clicking reply and had to do it again .

Yes Joe, all is well here! Other then the fact its wired to be back home and far to cold...im not use to this The trip was great and actually decided to go on my own instead. Was by far the best decision. Did what i wanted, when i wanted!! Wasn't lonely at all either...in the 7 months that i was out there the longest i was on my own was 24 hours lol You meet so many people.

....Not to mention being single was the best thing ever....The girls joe, the girls!!!!

I'll keep that in mind .

^Yeah, this happened once - and it was terribly disconcerting:

http://i1180.photobucket.com/albums/x407/BaronOfFratton/vsmodels2.jpg

http://i1180.photobucket.com/albums/x407/B...ns/38573061.gif

I had a dream about that too only she had a disco ball dress and dog necklace in mine .

http://i414.photobucket.com/albums/pp221/f...r_evolution.png

^ love it

Reminds me of this t - shirt that i've seen everywhere

http://img189.imageshack.us/img189/7270/ev...pfollowingm.jpg

hahhaha nice and my sister asked me OHHHHHh what are you looking than i told her matt is here to show such things.

I was just wondering as to why that's allowed, but saying someone is fat or unattractive is considered rude and hurtful, etc. Because either way your still saying something that can be offending.

Yes, but there's also something that's called "freedom of speech"

Critisism can be constructive and it's a good thing you're allowed to show your opinion. A simple "I don't like her" i spretty pointless, I agree. Nevertheless, I don't find it particularly rude or something.

3 thing that would make bz better is

1. been able to change your username as much as you want

2. preventing stalker.

3. changing the logo picture

Well, I'm sure someone of the technical staff will consider your suggestion.

As for the logo part I'm already on it

So, enough said about the issue now for the moment, I guess so. Let's just stay away from each other, guys.

I wasted my BZ time doing 'containment' for this thread. Next time, you got to pull out your mod sword and finish the job: Cut down unnecessary trolling and drama when you see it. Contain it. etc. Too much social harmony, Carmelita!

Signin' off..

between the person who comes here to know if their is an option, a possibility to know the identity of people who watch our stuff and the other person who comes here to complain because of his "underrate", which one if the biggest troll ? members' popularity is not something who could be change by the forum.

I said the staff will do further investigations of the issue. For now there doesn't seem to be enough facts for making a decision for either side of you. Of course you are free to leave anytime.