Approaching a Female

When you're in a relationship you'll always have crushes.

Sometimes people overrate being in a relationship.

I like being single and I like going out with different people and I like acting on crushes, so no relationship for me at the moment. Maybe you should try it....

I feel lonely like that, though. I like having that kind of connection with a person, the kind of warm feeling you get when you like someone and your together and happy and you can't think of anything going wrong(cheesy I know, but it's only happened to me this one time with the person I'm with). I like being intimate but only if I'm commited. I just wish things were still the way they were within the first 6 months of this relationship. I can't explain how happy I was but now it's ... kind of terrible. Just my luck.

Everybody loves that warm feeling. I still have to meet the person who doesn't.

Guess you just have to talk about it to your bf. And if it doesn't work....hey life is too short to feel miserable..

... we almost broke up. I know we'll end up actually doing so in the span of 2 weeks, it's almost inevitable. I don't understand it... I am an awesome girlfriend and I'm not bad looking either .. I've taught him everything when it comes to being in a relationship, I'm his first everrrything... I don't know how I ended up being the one left on the curb.

Well..I've been through the same not that long ago and it hurts badly when the seperation is final, but eventually you'll start to realize that it may have been for the better and that is gonna help you accept it. Or maybe the both of you just need this 'shock' of seperation, to realize how much you mean to eachother.

... we almost broke up. I know we'll end up actually doing so in the span of 2 weeks, it's almost inevitable. I don't understand it... I am an awesome girlfriend and I'm not bad looking either .. I've taught him everything when it comes to being in a relationship, I'm his first everrrything... I don't know how I ended up being the one left on the curb.

I'm sorry to hear that Alexa.

From what I know of you, he should be happy to have such a cool girlfriend like yourself. I know how it feels when someone you really love no longer feels the same about you...

So I also know that there isn't much we can say that'll help you right now. Best thing to hope for now is that he remains respectfull towards you during your break-up. My ex-girlfriend couldn't even do that, which meant that we couldn't even remain somewhat friendly after the break-up.

If he does handle it badly in a way that hurts you even more, I say go for the friend of his you like.

... we almost broke up. I know we'll end up actually doing so in the span of 2 weeks, it's almost inevitable. I don't understand it... I am an awesome girlfriend and I'm not bad looking either .. I've taught him everything when it comes to being in a relationship, I'm his first everrrything... I don't know how I ended up being the one left on the curb.

I'm sorry to hear that Alexa.

From what I know of you, he should be happy to have such a cool girlfriend like yourself. I know how it feels when someone you really love no longer feels the same about you...

So I also know that there isn't much we can say that'll help you right now. Best thing to hope for now is that he remains respectfull towards you during your break-up. My ex-girlfriend couldn't even do that, which meant that we couldn't even remain somewhat friendly after the break-up.

If he does handle it badly in a way that hurts you even more, I say go for the friend of his you like.

thank you, SS. You're awesome. ... (and I am too , lol)

we haven't broken up... but after we spoke more, I feel a lot better about things. It's not a perfect relationship but I want to try to stay together. I'm actually the mean one who flips out... I wasn't really nice to him when we were going to break up, but I apologized because I didn't mean anything I said. We never call each other names or swear directly at each other, which helps a lot. I might have said some things about our relationship that were harsh, though ... but as I said... I apologized and we're ok now.

Good to hear. Once you've been in a relationship for that long, it's hard throwing it all away. You guys should fight for it!

Every relationship loses the warm fuzzy feeling. Then its a matter of growing accustomed to each other's bad habits. Romance breeds in the young...ask your parents :|

I know about that. Still, that phase of a relationship can be more fun than the warm and fuzzy beginning.

Every relationship loses the warm fuzzy feeling. Then its a matter of growing accustomed to each other's bad habits. Romance breeds in the young...ask your parents :|

I know ... but I can't ask mine, my mother has been a widow for many years. Still, she'd probably say the same thing.

I know about that. Still, that phase of a relationship can be more fun than the warm and fuzzy beginning.

I still get the warm fuzzy feeling with him, I don't think he does though. Sometimes when we're making out or just kissing he'll think it's because I'm horny and he'll ask me and I'll say that I'm not. I can't explain it, sure I'm a little turned on but that's not all. I use to think that I only was physically attracted to him but it's not only that any more.

Well..I've been through the same not that long ago and it hurts badly when the seperation is final, but eventually you'll start to realize that it may have been for the better and that is gonna help you accept it. Or maybe the both of you just need this 'shock' of seperation, to realize how much you mean to eachother.

LOL@Ack trying to cheer somebody up :evil:

@Rogue: Sometimes kissing is a lot more intimate than sex itself. Maybe he is afraid of letting his guard down.

I know about that. Still, that phase of a relationship can be more fun than the warm and fuzzy beginning.

I'm not saying it's not, but the excitement and sex in various places in broad daylight kind of decreases Anyway, young people (in general) seem to have this idea of associating love with the warm and fuzzy feeling and end their relationships when they lose that feeling. Then they go on a search for more warm and fuzzy feelings That's what I notice anyway Anyway, good to see you're not that type Alexa and sorry to hear about your father

@Rogue: Sometimes kissing is a lot more intimate than sex itself. Maybe he is afraid of letting his guard down.

Thanks, it sad to hear that maybe he hasn't been able to let his guard down considering that we've been going out for over a year. Reality bites! Yeah, he's just a bit of an arse that I put up with out of a strong attachment.. I know it, all my friends think I'm stupid including my mother, but what can I do? I'm stuck on him..

I know about that. Still, that phase of a relationship can be more fun than the warm and fuzzy beginning.

I'm not saying it's not, but the excitement and sex in various places in broad daylight kind of decreases Anyway, young people (in general) seem to have this idea of associating love with the warm and fuzzy feeling and end their relationships when they lose that feeling. Then they go on a search for more warm and fuzzy feelings That's what I notice anyway Anyway, good to see you're not that type Alexa and sorry to hear about your father

Awwt thanks ed, it's ok.. my father passed awy many years ago and I'm actually not depressive about it because I lost him at such a young age so I don't really have an issue talking about it.

I totally agree that young people (haha people my age) are out to get the fuzzy feeling and that when it fades they move on. That;s just the thing about starting to have relationships at a young age though, which is exactly the reason why people who start younger tend to have more partners than a person who has started dating older. I must admit, I use to be a fuzzy feeling chaser... but for the passed year and a half I've really buckled down.

It's really hard for me because it's really the first time where I've had issues where the person who is more hooked/attached in the relationship is me. I never fell hard but now I know what it's like on the other side. I guess that's why I'm being so focal about it.

and this is why we are totally off topic :trout:

Thanks, it sad to hear that maybe he hasn't been able to let his guard down considering that we've been going out for over a year. Reality bites! Yeah, he's just a bit of an arse that I put up with out of a strong attachment.. I know it, all my friends think I'm stupid including my mother, but what can I do? I'm stuck on him..

That is called being in love my dear. I read somewhere that you are his first relationship. Maybe that's the reason. Some people just feel vulnerable. But do not put up with him just out of attachment and do not let him use you as a puppet.

Take this from an old man () We do not love, to be loved in return.

and this is why we are totally off topic :trout:

We're off topic because of a trout?

Coincidentally, I use trouts to show people I'm interested. They normally run away though, but they have no idea what they're missing out on... mmm sashimi

That is called being in love my dear. I read somewhere that you are his first relationship. Maybe that's the reason. Some people just feel vulnerable. But do not put up with him just out of attachment and do not let him use you as a puppet.

Take this from an old man () We do not love, to be loved in return.

I always say that I'm not in love... if I'm in love then it really sucks... and I hate it

and I would like to be loved in return

and this is why we are totally off topic :trout:

We're off topic because of a trout?

Coincidentally, I use trouts to show people I'm interested. They normally run away though, but they have no idea what they're missing out on... mmm sashimi

:brows: :trout: :brows:

Ed and Alexa, sitting in a tree...

heyyy!! ... it's sitting in a car, remember lol!!

I was going for the PG13 version.