Approaching a Female

I went out with that boy again ... I wonder if he would go downtown

thanks Rouggeeeee!!!

He'd better! :persuazn:

I don't think I like him that way ... at lest i know I'm not rebounding

Let the tongue be the judge

mm ... I think he's another virgin.. ... I wouldn't mind

Go for it!

... argg, I said I wouldn't try to break another one in .. but they are just so much fun :evil:

Make sure to teach this one to go down on you!

I don't see what the problem is, it's so nice to do... Rogue... maybe if you went for a slightly more experienced guy, you may have a chance at finding one that has been Downtown before.

Or you could just use it as your first question when you meet a cute guy..... "Before we get to names can I just ask something?... errr.. do you go Downtown?".... You'd find one in an hour!!! Trust me !! hahaha

I don't see what the problem is, it's so nice to do... Rogue... maybe if you went for a slightly more experienced guy, you may have a chance at finding one that has been Downtown before.

Or you could just use it as your first question when you meet a cute guy..... "Before we get to names can I just ask something?... errr.. do you go Downtown?".... You'd find one in an hour!!! Trust me !! hahaha

Argg .. I need sex!! It's been like flippin' 2 months .. I'm so hungry! I don't know about the little bow I've been about with these days, he's too innocent and young .. or just not matured enough .. I don't know. School is starting up again so it will be a good time to randomly run into new and more attractive people.. potentials if you will ... I just need some hot heated action with someone that will drive me wild for the time being. At least I'm over the basturd - NOW I miss having crushes and the chase...

this may sound wierd but i hate it when guys compliment me...their like oh baby your so beautiful....im like no!! Maybe im an anomaly but i dont like being complimented on my looks. Girls are scary and i can understand where your comming from. Just have confidence and be like hey hows it going i couldnt help but notice you. ASk her what she is up to...dont let her talk to down to you...dont take any lip. If i'm cold towards a guy and he is still like pursuing me in a polite assertive way...i warm up. I just always have my guard up because i assume the worts. DO NOT TOUCH THE GIRL!...untill its your 1st date...i hate hate hate it when guys grab me or put their arm around me thats a big red flag. BEing relaxed is key...but if the guy is hot and he is nervous its so cute and it makes me put my guard down. I cant speak for all girls because i think im not like most in the sense of "getting picked up"...but if a guy is standing tall and is assertive and polite and genuine and isnt peepin me or showing me his expensive watch that is points in my book. But i do like a good dresser. Nice hair and outfit is big points in my book. It makes me think like oh this dude is together...ill talk.

strawberry bigmac i totally agree yesterday lunch this guy who smiles at me in college quite frquently asked me out during lunch. He said ''hi'' asked me for my name, introduced himself and said ''can i have ur number and would you like to go out sometime''? but his friends were sitting and watching us and i was with a friend and felt really put on the spot so i said ''ummmm.....no......sorry'' im officially a retard he was like ok and went away but they kept watching me and my friend and i felt too uncomfortable to try and eat my lunch and threw it away and was leaving when i heard his friends laugh at him saying ''hahaha u put her off her lunch'' now im thinking was i mean?? it was more cos i was nervous and didnt know wat to do and now he probs thinks im a right bitch help! shud i just give him my number the nxt time i see him or leave it?? plus the thing was he was tall, dark and cute and i've never had a proper relationship b4 lol about 6 different guys have asked me out since i started college afew months ago but i felt they were players and non sincere plus i wasnt interested but i think i cud really like this guy but im also thinking mebbe he was another guy trying to get some action...im soo confused...

You being uncomfortable is a poor reflection on him. It's his job to make you feel comfortable. He should have picked a better time, away from his friends, started up a nice casual conversation and then asked. By coming over and just blurting that out, he was due the type of response you gave. If you like the fella, next time you see him, just try and laugh that off and start from scratch. He'll feel darn relieved that you're still interested.

Awww thanks so much for the advice Frederick, u've really helped! U sound pretty clued up on dating lol and i feel so much better now

You being uncomfortable is a poor reflection on him. It's his job to make you feel comfortable. He should have picked a better time, away from his friends, started up a nice casual conversation and then asked. By coming over and just blurting that out, he was due the type of response you gave. If you like the fella, next time you see him, just try and laugh that off and start from scratch. He'll feel darn relieved that you're still interested.

I laughed out loud when I read this. Seriously. If she was nervous, it's not his fault. Getting asked out is a naturally nervous situation for a girl that hasn't had much experience dating, and the guy did what he needed to do. He came up to her during an opportunity, introduced himself, blurted nothing, and simply asked for her number. The fact that he was direct and doing it in front of his and her friends only shows that the guy is honest and has more guts than most guys.

To ABBFan: if you see him again, do you think you'll be so comfortable you can just laugh it all off? Be realistic. If this were that easy, you probably wouldn't have choked and said no in the first place. So if you see him again, say you're sorry, since you do feel bad about it. But don't ask for his number. Say something like, "And if you still wanted to go out sometime..." and he'll take it the rest of the way if he's still interested.

Maybe im an anomaly but i dont like being complimented on my looks.

An anomaly? Man, if a girl ever said that about herself to me, I couldn't dump her fast enough.

You being uncomfortable is a poor reflection on him. It's his job to make you feel comfortable. He should have picked a better time, away from his friends, started up a nice casual conversation and then asked. By coming over and just blurting that out, he was due the type of response you gave. If you like the fella, next time you see him, just try and laugh that off and start from scratch. He'll feel darn relieved that you're still interested.

I laughed out loud when I read this. Seriously. If she was nervous, it's not his fault. Getting asked out is a naturally nervous situation for a girl that hasn't had much experience dating, and the guy did what he needed to do. He came up to her during an opportunity, introduced himself, blurted nothing, and simply asked for her number. The fact that he was direct and doing it in front of his and her friends only shows that the guy is honest and has more guts than most guys.

This is the kind of pseudo-manly nonsense that makes me laugh out loud. He asked her out in front of his friends, are we supposed to hand out some kind of medal for his 'honesty' and 'guts'? The guy picked a bad moment, pure and simple.

I guess you like to stalk your girls and when they're alone, you corner them where they can't run.

You know you don't have to have all your friends watching like its some game show. But whatever works for you, slick!

I'm old fashion, do a little flirting and if they seem like their into you tell them that you like that

(which I rarely do; they usually approach me first), I'll start out by asking what they're plans are and if I find out that they're free, I'll say "so do you wanna go out to a movie or something? it's a date, so it's gonna be my treat."

So that's what you do when you approach females huh tuhreese? :brows:

lol its turned into a major debate but i loved his honestly and his confidence but just wished he picked some other time where hes friends werent watching like hawks, it was more their actions that i felt weired by otherwise yeh i probs wud have said yes and if i see him again i will apologise and say something about hanging out, he probs wont want to tho after wat i did...