Approaching a Female

I'm old fashion, do a little flirting and if they seem like their into you tell them that you like that

(which I rarely do; they usually approach me first), I'll start out by asking what they're plans are and if I find out that they're free, I'll say "so do you wanna go out to a movie or something? it's a date, so it's gonna be my treat."

I could never let a girl pay for me, especially not on a first date. I'm probably old-fashioned like that. Ack is getting old

So that's what you do when you approach females huh tuhreese? :brows:

yeah it's usually is

I'm old fashion, do a little flirting and if they seem like their into you tell them that you like that

(which I rarely do; they usually approach me first), I'll start out by asking what they're plans are and if I find out that they're free, I'll say "so do you wanna go out to a movie or something? it's a date, so it's gonna be my treat."

I could never let a girl pay for me, especially not on a first date. I'm probably old-fashioned like that. Ack is getting old

nah your not old Ack usually it's like "guys pay" or something like that but come on let girl pay for once :|

I Always go for pay half with a first date.. both feel a little more relaxed that way. I hate anyone paying for me but it happens somtimes.

nah your not old Ack usually it's like "guys pay" or something like that but come on let girl pay for once :|

It's not really my thing to let the girl pay. It happened once though, well kinda... We went to a pretty expensive restaurant and it was really fun. Great conversation...a lot of flirting going on

When we left I wanted to pay the bill and she said: "it's all taken care of" . I was like

She told me she went to that restaurant a day before to pay in advance, just to make sure that I wouldn't pick up the bill. She was used to being independent and didn't want a guy she barely knew to pay for her.

I do think it's good to be independent, but come on let a guy be a gentleman for once. Because girls...we all know that if we don't pay on the first date you're gonna tell all your friends that we're cheap bastards!

yeah it's usually is

omg I think I'm in love

nah your not old Ack usually it's like "guys pay" or something like that but come on let girl pay for once :|

I'm cheap

I want a free meal :|

nah your not old Ack usually it's like "guys pay" or something like that but come on let girl pay for once :|

It's not really my thing to let the girl pay. It happened once though, well kinda... We went to a pretty expensive restaurant and it was really fun. Great conversation...a lot of flirting going on

When we left I wanted to pay the bill and she said: "it's all taken care of" . I was like

She told me she went to that restaurant a day before to pay in advance, just to make sure that I wouldn't pick up the bill. She was used to being independent and didn't want a guy she barely knew to pay for her.

I do think it's good to be independent, but come on let a guy be a gentleman for once. Because girls...we all know that if we don't pay on the first date you're gonna tell all your friends that we're cheap bastards!

But that doesn't mean I wouldn't mind having a guy pay once in while lol everyones different. Some people just don't care if guy pay or not

yeah it's usually is

omg I think I'm in love

nah your not old Ack usually it's like "guys pay" or something like that but come on let girl pay for once :|

I'm cheap

I want a free meal :|

It's simple.. I'll pay for your meals

But that doesn't mean I wouldn't mind having a guy pay once in while lol everyones different. Some people just don't care if guy pay or not

I still wouldn't do it. I blame my parents.

It's different if you're already in a relationship and she pays once in a while, but not on a first date.

I wouldnt mind a guy, or any guy, to pay for the first date, or any date, for the rest of my life :|

I wouldnt mind a guy, or any guy, to pay for the first date, or any date, for the rest of my life :|

You do know how they call women who get paid for dates?

You do know how they call women who get paid for dates?

Pretty women ??

It's simple.. I'll pay for your free meals

boooo! I thought I was going to get someone to pay for my meals

I wouldnt mind a guy, or any guy, to pay for the first date, or any date, for the rest of my life :|

*buys you a pack of dates*

You do know how they call women who get paid for dates?

Pretty women ??

No that's how they call bad romantic comedies about those women.

You being uncomfortable is a poor reflection on him. It's his job to make you feel comfortable. He should have picked a better time, away from his friends, started up a nice casual conversation and then asked. By coming over and just blurting that out, he was due the type of response you gave. If you like the fella, next time you see him, just try and laugh that off and start from scratch. He'll feel darn relieved that you're still interested.

I laughed out loud when I read this. Seriously. If she was nervous, it's not his fault. Getting asked out is a naturally nervous situation for a girl that hasn't had much experience dating, and the guy did what he needed to do. He came up to her during an opportunity, introduced himself, blurted nothing, and simply asked for her number. The fact that he was direct and doing it in front of his and her friends only shows that the guy is honest and has more guts than most guys.

This is the kind of pseudo-manly nonsense that makes me laugh out loud. He asked her out in front of his friends, are we supposed to hand out some kind of medal for his 'honesty' and 'guts'? The guy picked a bad moment, pure and simple.

Neither of you are right. Or wrong. You have to know the mood and context of the situation in which he asked the question to be able to say anything of value about this situation.

I Always go for pay half with a first date.. both feel a little more relaxed that way. I hate anyone paying for me but it happens somtimes.

yeh half is gd, i cudnt enjoy myself properly if someone else was paying for everything cos then i will be worrying about wat we eat on the date and whether its too expensive etc

Good thinking. ^_^

yes i like to think so

I miss I.L.G.W.

Haha... I don't talk about payment until the check comes. Then I just put my credit card on it before anyone has a chance to say anything.

As for the original question in this thread....

1 - Wear some tight-assed jeans.

2 - Stuff your wallet with tissue. That's right, tissue. Everyone knows that's what they're looking at when they check your butt out.

3 - Look busy with your blackberry or padfolio or whatever and "accidentally" bump into your victim (at this pointif you believe you can cop a quick feel without detection, do so)

4 - Appologize saying that you were focused on something very important. When asked what it is, say you were working on a multi-million dollar account.

5 - If she checks your ass out and see your buldging wallet at some point, she's toast.

you're evil! will you be my master? :evil: