Approaching a Female

Christmas is coming, make her a mix tape. And for kicks, be old school and make it an actual tape. And do some linear notes, maybe with a few musings about why you chose each track etc. Then when she and the boyfriend break up (and they will), she'll remember the sweet guy who tried to get her into Fleetwood Mac.

Christmas is coming, make her a mix tape. And for kicks, be old school and make it an actual tape. And do some linear notes, maybe with a few musings about why you chose each track etc. Then when she and the boyfriend break up (and they will), she'll remember the sweet guy who tried to get her into Fleetwood Mac.

So how'd she bring the boyfriend up? Did you really not have an inkling? I find that hard to believe.

Bad news. The girl I was after has a boyfriend. I think I'm going to be sick. I guess on the bright side we had two good conversations today...and got some contact information. It seems like I'm beginning to make a real good..."friend". Man I hate that word sometimes. But really, what a let down. Something like this always happens. Maybe I'm too shallow.

So how'd she bring the boyfriend up? Did you really not have an inkling? I find that hard to believe.

Yeah dude. You gotta be cool when she mentions the boyfriend... the cuties almost always have boyfriends so you got to get used to it.

And I said "Oh alright, with friends?" And she's like "Yeah, my boyfriend and stuff".

Christmas is coming, make her a mix tape. And for kicks, be old school and make it an actual tape. And do some linear notes, maybe with a few musings about why you chose each track etc. Then when she and the boyfriend break up (and they will), she'll remember the sweet guy who tried to get her into Fleetwood Mac.

Someone's been reading a wee bit too much Hornby, methinks...

And I said "Oh alright, with friends?" And she's like "Yeah, my boyfriend and stuff".

As a much wiser man than me once said: God didn't make women so you could understand them, he made them so you could love them.

Trying to understand her reasoning or motives is a futile exercise imho.

Women... what dumb idea...

Whoever said "It is not good for man to be alone". Genius. I swear. lol.

Women... what dumb idea...

Whoever said "It is not good for man to be alone". Genius. I swear. lol.

Are you mocking me? Am I funny to you? Let me understand this cause, I don't know maybe it's me, I'm a little fucked up maybe, but I'm funny how? I mean, funny like I'm a clown, I amuse you? I make you laugh... I'm here to fuckin' amuse you? What do you mean funny, funny how? How am I funny?

Goodfellas. I love that movie.

Goodfellas. I love that movie.

And I said "Oh alright, with friends?" And she's like "Yeah, my boyfriend and stuff".

^^ :nod:

Women are too retarded for that.

Me and my class went to Stanford University today. To do some sketches at their art museum. I of course live very close to Stanford, so I didn't have to travel all the way to San Francisco today just to come to Stanford. Anyways, towards the end of the class, I was sitting outside the museum on a bench basically. And this girl who's basically in my class (different teacher, same type of class) sits next to me. Now I had seen her around campus during class breaks in our building back in San Francisco where we usually have class. She's really cute. I think she's also Japanese. I'm not sure. But yeah, really cute.

Anyways, she sits next to me, and I guess she's just waiting for both of our classes to gather up to go back to San Francisco. So she's sitting there, and I'm thinking "Hmmm...I need to make a move." And without really thinking about it unlike I did with the previous girl, I just talked to her without more than five seconds hesitation. I used a lame, but passable opening question to break the ice. I asked what time our classes were going to meet up. After that, everything seemed...easier. I mean, I didn't panic really or anything. I introduced myself and asked her what her name was and all that. Then just asked her about her major, how her drawing have been coming along, what year she was at the Academy, etc. Just some small talk. She had the same name as my mom though. That was kinda odd, but whatever...

So do you guys believe that I'm acting kind of "desperate" by talking to someone else so soon? I mean this new girl is really nice and charming...not to mention gorgeous. It's cool that she's an illustration major and in her third year, just like me. Wouldn't be surprised if she has a boyfriend either. But yeah, the other girl I was talking to you about for a few weeks...I mean I think I may have made a good friend out of her, however she's taken as I've told you. So I thought it might be a good idea to keep getting myself out there you know? I just don't want to seem desperate though. Opinions?

I wish there were more guys like you!!

So do you guys believe that I'm acting kind of "desperate" by talking to someone else so soon? I mean this new girl is really nice and charming...not to mention gorgeous. It's cool that she's an illustration major and in her third year, just like me. Wouldn't be surprised if she has a boyfriend either. But yeah, the other girl I was talking to you about for a few weeks...I mean I think I may have made a good friend out of her, however she's taken as I've told you. So I thought it might be a good idea to keep getting myself out there you know? I just don't want to seem desperate though. Opinions?